Feng Shui CrazyMaking My World A Better One

I’ve read recently how music can balanced your living when you are using feng shui around your home.  And I have to tell you that music with my yamaha p90 certainly calms me down a lot at the end of the day or if I am stressed out.  I find the classical music works better for me than heavy and hard rock that my spouse like.  Whenever the spouse turns on his hard rock and heavy metal instead of having a calming feeling, I feel all agitated.  Of course, I didn’t say that to him for he loves that kind of music. The funny thing is when I wanted a portable piano he was all for it, in fact before my kid came along he too took some interest in learning classical music.   So if your home is chaotic or also full of problems - trying using classical music or take up some piano lessons to calm yourself and your surroundings.  It worked for me - and i feel strongly about new age and classical music.

So you want to make a dragon baby I heard - and want to feng shui your bedroom so that it will be a romantic space for you and the spouse to create good atmosphere for a dragon baby?  is there really such a thing as feng shui you bedroom to make a smart and healthy dragon baby?

Yes, one can use feng shui to make your bedroom a more romantic place for you to make babies.   First to start off with cleaning and clearing the clutter in your bedroom.  And then the color of your bedroom is very important too  - yes, some say even right up to the  switch covers in your room.   I prefer to use switch covers that are not white in color - I liked the pastel color ones or the gold colored ones.  Besides the switch covers in your bedroom - you should also remove all electronic things like your computer and tv away from the bedroom - that way both of you are not distracted by electronic things and can enjoy each other.

Decorations for your bedroom should always be in pair - and if you can - not only the switch covers should be pastel - so should your room.  So if you can paint your room a romantic or warm color - that would definitely ignite any relationship that needs a little fire.

Lastly, do not place any water in your bedroom.

Winter has been really mild - not much snow except for really cold wind - so the girlfriends and I are trying to decide if we should do our road trip earlier this year.  Every year, we try to head up to New York to visit a close college friend of ours.   The girlfriend just bought a 2nd hand trailer as you can see on the above picture and gotten her 5th wheel warranty - so she asked me to feng shui the 5th wheel - so that we will have a safe and awesome trip.

But we had already done the cleansing of the trailer when she bought it and put in some new curtains and washed it down with sea salt water and since she already has the warranty and road safety check - I think we are all set for our road trip.  I hope the weather keeps up and we will not have any trouble driving long haul.

My friend from here who is getting married in September is seriously checking out weddings in barbados because she wanted the sun, sea and beaches and an exotic honeymoon.  Wedding and a honeymoon and pretty much stress free - why not eh?  so she asked if there is something she needs to take note of - so that her wedding and life together with her spouse would be a happily ever after.   I took a look online and the Caribbean is truly a wonderful place to be for a wedding - guests who are invited would be happy to be there and told her to be happy.  Feng shui is all about happiness - and all about the well being of the bride and groom - if the groom and the bride is good with the destination and the wedding planner - everything should be good.  Big or small wedding - the most important thing about a wedding is that both wants to spend their life together and the rest will fall into its place.

I have a group of friend who loved anything feng shui just like myself - so when I told the spouse that I wanted to shop for some Christmas presents for them - the spouse suggested that I buy some feng shui stuff for them - hhaha!!  well, I know they loved feng shui stuff but it isn’t always necessary to only stick to one thing right?  it can get quite boring.  So this Christmas - I decided to check out some Fedoras Hats for my feng shui buddies because I know one of them loved it too - and I know they won’t be expecting it.  I loved the hats myself - so I might just get one for myself this Christmas.  My grandfather used to have hats like that and I really wished he would have left it for me when he passed away - I would have loved to have his collections.  Unfortunately, it didn’t end up with me - and I don’t know which of my relatives have them - i would have treasured them - these hats are vintage.

So my college girlfriend decided to relent and let her spouse turn her basement into a male domain - in order to keep the peace at home and also to encourage the spouse to stay home more often instead of going out drinking with his buddies from work.  The spouse works as a cop - and according to him - he needed a place to de-stressed while my college girlfriend is worried that the basement might be the cause of more fights in the future.  With a big screen tv, game consoles, converter and a mini bar put into the basement - the girlfriend figured she might be the one doing all the cleaning in the future.   So she asked me what can she do for the basement with Feng Shui to eliminate the problem before it blows out of proportion.

I think that thinking ahead is good - but sometimes thinking too  much and making the anticipation like my girlfriend is making might already be a caused for a disaster before it happens.  So instead of worrying - I told her to concentrate on the upstairs and making the upstairs and the outdoors beautiful and in tune with her harmony and peace.   As for the basement - I figured if she had a door to the basement and if the friend don’t need to go in and out thru’ the upstairs to get downstairs - she shouldn’t be too bothered by it - and go with the flow.

So she asked will all the electronics in the basement upset the flow of the home - I told her that if she don’t let it - it shouldn’t - of course, if the rats starts visiting the upstairs for food - then that’s another story.  Feng shui is a peace of mind of a person - don’t let things bother you too much.

Executive Chef Jobs are not an easy job to find around here - unlike in Asia where we have a hospitality school - just meant to train people who wants to be chefs or front desk managers - and we have jobs already lined up for them even before they graduate.  So when a friend from here asked if there was some feng shui he can use to find a better job - that set me thinking too.

Feng shui can be used to enhance your search effort but do not think that by moving some furniture or clearing some clutter and not physically looking for jobs can help you find a job.  So besides using feng shui you have to do stuff like sending out resumes and job hunting seriously.

Finding the right job is as important as finding a job that pays well.  If you get a job that you don’t like - but pays a lot - that means you will be looking for another job soon.  So to find the right job - you can try a very simple thing - using images/pictures of people who are successful in their career or people who inspires you in the north area of your Bagua.  The north area is said to be connected to the flow energy of your career life also known as Path in Life.

My in-law’s old aunt is having a  new back surgery in about a month’s time - and they had asked if I can help look at the feng shui of her place - since she lives alone with a day nurse who will come help her in the day time after her back surgery.   I figured what the in-laws are saying is they want her to recuperate in a healthy environment and for her the heal fast.   So I went in to take a look at the house - hoping to help - of course as you all know I’m no expert in feng shui - I just practice it - and trying to make my world and life a better one each day.  So I had to read up a bit more on the back surgery and see what she will be like after and before the surgery - and then I can work a little better to make a better feng shui for her and her home.

My spouse’s grandfather just turned 100 years old during the weekend - we had a small celebration in the new retirement home he moved into.  While we were there, he was asking me to look around to see if I can feng shui his retirement home so that everyone will be healthy as long as possible and he wasn’t even joking about it too.  I did look around and saw a lot of trees and plants around the retirement home and lots of two step stools too.  I asked the caretaker there and she told me they were for the residents as they like to do their own things on their own and having the two step stools helps them to get things they need from the upper cupboards around the retirement home on their own without worrying about falling down.  I can see why they like to buy the ones with handle because it helps steady the older folks in the retirement home.

So I reported back to my spouse’s grandfather that he was in a good place - after all they do take care of their every need and even bought step stools to fit the residents and not the other way around.  I’m really happy for the spouse’s grandfather - he is going to be happy in that home.

I was invited to a grand opening of an office of a friend - he just got into the import and export business  - and like anyone who practices feng shui - I had to look around to see if they had good feng shui to sustain the business for a long time - and will he succeed.   His wife who is the purchasing manager uses shoplet coupons for all the office stationary they need - and it was she who had taken care of all other office supplies as well - from coffee maker - to the toilet cleaner that they needed in the office.  And she definitely didn’t spare any change for giving the best office environment to the employees as well - they even had a great kitchenette in the office - in case they need to work late.

I loved that they had a great seating area for guests - and in the sitting area - there was a fish tank with some live fishes in it - the water was cleaned and the fishes looked very healthy.    The wife’s office was simple - and unobstructed  - great for thinking and doing lots of work.  Overall, the feng shui looks great - but I’m no expert  - but it felt good in their office.