Feng Shui CrazyMaking My World A Better One

Enhancing one’s “yan” luck is very important to anyone who wants to be in the good books of your superior or be in the good books of anyone - you care for.  Why do some people just gets along with everyone and everyone seems to like them - while others - they just can’t seems to get anyone to like them.  So the chinese believe that the “yan” luck plays a very important part.

While some uses a pink crystal bracelet to enhance the “yan” luck - some uses mini led christmas lights in their bedroom.  Not only are these lights said to decorate your room - some said - it also enhances their romance luck if placed in the right position.  That you will have to check your bagua for it, plus LED lights are not expensive to keep them on all the time - so I would say - go for it - we have one in our patio - all year long - just because we want to enhance our family ties.

It is said that by practicing feng shui one can make things better through altering the external factors - such as your luck and opportunities that influences a person.  But are you making an impact just in your own life or on others too…??

I asked myself - have I made positive impact on my spouse and others…?? I am adding good stuff to the person’s life.  Yes and No - honestly - practicing feng shui means that I should be a good addition to my spouse’s life - to make his life better.  But i’m sad to report - that i haven’t been the best influence - so today - i’m going to earnestly change that.   Practicing feng shui is about harmony - bringing the best in the entire household and business for me - but if i keep chastising and blaming the spouse for everything that goes wrong - how can i say i’m trying to use feng shui to change our way of life - to be more positive..??  Positiveness  starts from within - starts from me - so if you are practicing feng shui - start being a positive impact on your closest person today.

A girl i know from work - even after using the best eye cream for wrinkles never have any luck with her love life, in fact each relationship seems to end up with a disaster.  So she asked me one day - how does one glow with love - like another friend she knows who practices feng shui.

Once again, I tell everyone that Feng Shui is no magic or does it have any magical potion. but feng shui can be used in love and relationships.  Here are a few tips.

1. If you are married or in a relationship, hang pictures of you together with your mate.

2. For married couples, place a pair of objects in the far right corner of the bedroom otherwise known as the southwest corner. A few good examples are a pair of Mandarin ducks or cranes as these are symbols of marital bliss. Another is a heart shaped figurine made from pink quartz crystal.

3. You surely have mirrors in the bedroom. If they are facing the bed, relocate them because it reflects the couple on the bed. Some believe that this will cause a failure in the relationship because of the entry of a third party. Believe it or not, televisions are just as negative as mirrors do get rid of it.

4. As for the bed, make sure that this is not in direct line to the door. This is because the dead take your with your feet first. It should also be accessible from three sides as this will allow you to keep your partner.

5. You should always treat yourselves to fresh flowers and once they wilt, replace it. Never put these in the southwest corner of the room as this will clash with the element of romance, namely earth.

6. If there are any abstract, dark or sad artworks in the bedroom, take it out. These things encourage negativity when this room should be peaceful and safe for those who sleep there. You can replace it with a painting of Peonies, love birds or silk flowers as these represents love.

7. You must never work out in the bedroom because this represents hard work that is often a hindrance of romantic space.

8. Should the bedroom doors squeak, fix it because it blocks romantic energy from entering the bedroom.

9. For those who have toilets and unfortunately this is located on the south west corner of the room, don’t worry because you can fix it by hanging a five rod wind chime.

10. The bedroom should be well ventilated so old energy moves out of the room.

11. It will also be a good idea to buy yourselves a gift as this symbolizes your relationship. Put this in a prominent place in the room or the home so you are able to remember your partner.

12. But what if you are still single? Well Feng Shui may also work for you. You do this by making a wish list of what qualities you want in an ideal partner and also the ideal relationship. These are two different things and when you write it, be specific. It may not happen today or tomorrow but one day, your ideal partner will show up and you can have your dream come true.

Feng Shui can help you keep the love alive in your relationship by blocking out negative things and then embracing those that are positive. This may mean relying more of Yin which symbolizes femininity more than Yang which is masculinity but it is all good as this causes a healthy balance with the opposite sex.

So I was doing my abs workout at the gym - when a friend there told me that she was going to meet another friend there.  Yes! you heard right - someone was playing cupid - and why not - so she asked me - what to look out for when she meets the new “friend”.  Well, we all have to be realistic right - and even though we are not asking for a hunk - they still need to be fairly decent looking and presentable.  And even though - we don’t need a filthy rich millionaire - we still need to know that the person - who is supposedly to be introduced as a potential boyfriend needs to be sufficient right - not to take care of you but  himself first.  So if you meet someone whose nose hair is sticking out - well, it means that he does not have enough to susbtain even himself - so do steer clear - unless you are filthy rich yourself and he has other qualities that you cannot resist.

Mother’s Day is round the corner and everyone had been asking me what to get for their mom.   I recommended a Rose Quartz Gourd for good health and love for everyone’s mom or even the mother-in-law.   Well, unless - you can’t get along with the in-laws and call them the outlaws - hahah! but that itself - there must be a cure for it just like those  lipozene side effects that i’ve read about recently.  In Feng Shui, we talk about harmony and bring all the good chi together - so if you are having problems with the in-laws and want to try and make peace - I’m sure we can find something for you to give her - to try and reconciled the relationship.  Afterall, you want your children to have special bonding with their grandparents right?

Our bedroom is finally free of the tv/vcr and any game system - my girlfriend wrote to me - and even  cell phones were kept in the study room during the nite.  So i asked her so how is the relationship with her spouse these days and she said they are still working on it but less stressful in the bedroom and she gets better night rest.  You see the yang energy produced by televison and computes in your bedroom can cause a strain in your relationship.  And like i said.. feng shui is about practicality - now how can one get a lot of rest when the other is so engrossed in their gaming or shows right?   So yes ! if you do have all those electronic stuff in your bedroom - do remove them - see the difference quickly too.

One of my neighbor who practices feng shui was shown the above heart chime to activate her love life and romance.  You see this very nice neighbor of mine is a wonderful, wonderful person.  Generous and kind and good with kids - has a somewhat good and stable job and very hardworking.  But when it comes to her love life - she is never a winner there.  She is everyone’s boyfriend’s best friend but she can never napped the one she is interested in.

So she read online that by placing this chime outside one’s home - it would attract and enhance your relationship and bring love to her life.  The beauty of feng shui is being practical - and the beast is reading tips too closely without being truthful to oneself.  My neighbor is a big girl and instead of reading feng shui tips - she should be looking out for  diet pill reviews and choose the right diet that works for her first and the rest will fall into its place.  If only she would loose a few pounds - she wouldn’t be so intimidating to the nice guys around - if only she could face the truth - she won’t be taken advantage of by some bad ppl.   So for those reading this blog - please make sure you be truthful to yourself - looks ain’t important but it sure plays a very important role.

We all love our spouse to a certain extend but once you’ve been together for as long as I have - it kind of get stagnant right?  Many couple thinks that once you are married you don’t need to take care of the basic thing and keeping the romance alive  - some even think that their  blackheads on nose are pretty cute - but women - it’s NOT !   If you feel that your relationship with your spouse is a wee bit stagnant - now is the time to activate your romance by hanging the above pair of crystal close to your bed as soon as possible.   You certainly don’t want to lose your spouse to some other women outside - but don’t forget to take care of yourself and basic hygiene too now!

Don’t the loose rose quartz crystal look great?  Yes ! and they come free if i buy something from my favorite feng shui store this Valentine - I just had to get it.  For those who are already in a relationship or even married besides making sure that you get your allergy mattress covers , it is good to keep that romance alive too.   I know it can be hard at times, with kids and work and sometimes even school but who said an relationship is easy right? and even with feng shui, you have to work at it too.  Taking each other for granted is definitely not a good thing - so if you have been taking your partner for granted - this valentine, don’t only send flowers or place love cures but really work on it.  I do have to too.

Feng Shui and Romance goes hand in hand,  just like acne and  acne solutions.  Since Life is about relationships, setting the stage to attract or enhance a fulfilling romance can help you realize your heart’s desire to connect with a loving, supportive mate.

Preparing your love nest for a Feng Shui and Romance relationship begins by first giving your home an overall check-up for Yin and Yang harmony and balance. An overly feminine, frilly house might make some males uncomfortable - and not many women are attracted to hunting trophies in the living room.

When you are a man or woman - no one likes clutter.  Plus placing some feng shui ornaments near your bedside is another way to go - like the mandarin duck.  But don’t forget you have to have a pair for everything - whether it is a mandarin duck or a love couplet  - the power of two is very important.