Feng Shui CrazyMaking My World A Better One

My friend from here who is getting married in September is seriously checking out weddings in barbados because she wanted the sun, sea and beaches and an exotic honeymoon.  Wedding and a honeymoon and pretty much stress free - why not eh?  so she asked if there is something she needs to take note of - so that her wedding and life together with her spouse would be a happily ever after.   I took a look online and the Caribbean is truly a wonderful place to be for a wedding - guests who are invited would be happy to be there and told her to be happy.  Feng shui is all about happiness - and all about the well being of the bride and groom - if the groom and the bride is good with the destination and the wedding planner - everything should be good.  Big or small wedding - the most important thing about a wedding is that both wants to spend their life together and the rest will fall into its place.

I have an aunt and she isn’t ugly nor fat at all - but why doesn’t she have a boyfriend and why did she only get married when she was closed to 49 yrs old?  Yes - my aunt only got married at 49 - very strange for someone who is not bad looking and comes from a good background right?  And how did she find the love of her life?  Well, initially  - she blames it on having to look after my grandfather - so she wasn’t able to get involved with a man - or someone that my grandfather would approved - but she did eventually get married to someone who doesn’t know how to even read in English and for someone who finished her college really strange right?  So why did she married beneath her? and is she happy?  I guess so - and at 49 for a Asian - she should consider herself lucky?

Well, if you don’t want to be like my aunt - it’s time to empower your own relationship and start to act on it.  How?   Most Asian thinks that when you are more than 30 years old you will not find the right person to fall in love with - and so they closed their hearts and they don’t look around for the one that is just there for them.  Some are even worst - they decided that they don’t need to even put on make up when they go out of the house.   Now if you are serious about finding someone to share your life with - open your heart - have faith, stay positive and have a decent outlook of your life and stop being so grumpy - the world is not against you.

Be happy with yourself first - learn to enjoy the things around you and stop mopping around the house in your PJs and activate your social network.  Go out have fun with friends, whether they are boys or girls.  Wear pastel color clothing, learn to smell nice, go to the dentist and have your teeth whiten or cleaned so that you have confidence when you chat up with the opposite sex.  Empower your relationship now before the end of the year - find the one for you.

So my college girlfriend decided to relent and let her spouse turn her basement into a male domain - in order to keep the peace at home and also to encourage the spouse to stay home more often instead of going out drinking with his buddies from work.  The spouse works as a cop - and according to him - he needed a place to de-stressed while my college girlfriend is worried that the basement might be the cause of more fights in the future.  With a big screen tv, game consoles, converter and a mini bar put into the basement - the girlfriend figured she might be the one doing all the cleaning in the future.   So she asked me what can she do for the basement with Feng Shui to eliminate the problem before it blows out of proportion.

I think that thinking ahead is good - but sometimes thinking too  much and making the anticipation like my girlfriend is making might already be a caused for a disaster before it happens.  So instead of worrying - I told her to concentrate on the upstairs and making the upstairs and the outdoors beautiful and in tune with her harmony and peace.   As for the basement - I figured if she had a door to the basement and if the friend don’t need to go in and out thru’ the upstairs to get downstairs - she shouldn’t be too bothered by it - and go with the flow.

So she asked will all the electronics in the basement upset the flow of the home - I told her that if she don’t let it - it shouldn’t - of course, if the rats starts visiting the upstairs for food - then that’s another story.  Feng shui is a peace of mind of a person - don’t let things bother you too much.

Those that need “Tao Hua” luck should not be shy about it - it’s part of life - that we all want a partner and some to love and share our life with.  By activating the “Tao Hua” luck - you can increase your chances of finding your prince charming or life partner.  It is said that Tao Hua luck makes one more attractive to the opposite sex.  One can also use Tao Hua luck to rekindle an old friendship or dating opportunity.

The Peach Blossom Love Luck formula is very easy to apply. First, identify your Zodiac animal sign. Then refer to the table below to identify your Peach Blossom Animal. Display your Peach Blossom Animal in a prominent place in the sector corresponding to it in your house or bedroom and you’re done! This will energize your love life with new possibilities! Make sure your peach blossom animal is in good condition without any chip or cracks.

Lots of fresh air - lots of swimming - lots of cleaning out the clutter is my recommendation for staying healthy this summer and just a little of bbq food - for me !  I’ve put on 5 pounds!!! during the winter - so time to get me some  diet pills that work and lots of sunshine!!  It’s shocking how one can put on so much weight - when you are doing nothing during the winter - and I really think it’s time for me to look into taking some diet pills because boy! it’s hard for me to resist all those good food.  So besides cleaning out the house and staying positive - I have to admit this time I need help.  5 pounds is a lot!

While many people talked about the beauty that is inside that is most important - I tell you that it’s the outside that people see first and then the within.  So when my girlfriend’s daughter asked me why her best friends are having boyfriends and boys swarming around them - and not her - when she is the one that is the one with a good heart and a good listening ear.  I looked at my friend’s daughter and told her that the truth is with or without feng shui she needs to have the kind of confident to attract other people and to do so - she first have to take care of herself - www.dietpillsthatactuallywork.net was what i told her first to look up - and loose some weight - because inside that plump body - is a very beautiful angel and after loosing that weight - we can talk about feng shui.  I tell everyone feng shui is not magic - once she looses that weight - she will be so confident - she won’t need anything I’m sure.  So folks - you want to look beautiful for the people around you with feng shui - try looking deep inside yourself - because you know exactly what you need to do.

They say that one shouldn’t renovate while pregnant - and everyone asked if there is a feng shui reason for it? Seriously, I think it is just a taboo and old wives superstitions but who am I to say not to believe right?  But I know that renovating is ok - just as long as you are not living in the house - but moving house is a no- no - more outta practical reason than anything else.  So if your hormones are all powered up and asking you do renovate your house - make sure you are not the one doing it - just get someone else to or wait till the baby is here.  Good luck and congrats!

We celebrated a friend’s arrival of a  newborn baby  yesterday and he gave some alec bradley cigars out to everyone who attended the celebration and of course, pink champagne for all the ladies there.  It was a joyous occasion all because they had wanted a baby for a long time and they’ve tried all methods to have a baby.  And now that they finally have a new born baby girl - they are overjoyed.  We are very happy for them of course and am glad that we recommended that they use a baby picture - in their bedroom for feng shui reasons to help them achieve their goal and having a baby - and in less than a year - the baby came.  I don’t know how it worked but it worked for me too - I hung the picture of a 1000 babies that I had gotten from Beijing and I had my baby shortly - when the gynae had told my spouse that I won’t have a  baby since I was very old then.  But yes, if the spouse did smoke - we would have given out cigars to everyone in the office and at the store.

Those who love traveling must be the fun and exciting folks who love adventures but sometimes things can go wrong and it can turn your traveling fun into a nightmare and you don’t want that right?  So I thought I should share some feng shui traveling tips with you - since I used them myself - whenever I am traveling.  If you are traveling - besides bring lots of   tanning lotions , you also want to carry a thing or two of your favorite things.   I always pack - a feng shui bag  - what is it?  it is a bag that one can hold personal pictures, a scented candle of your favorite scent to clean and clear the energy of the hotel room that you are staying in and one or two ordinary candle.  I also bring with me a bottle of water blended with essential oils to spray on my sheets and pillow cases.   Some people pack incense to adjust the chi in a room.   All these traveling items can help you have a great holiday or a business trip - try it and let me know how it goes.

According to Lilian Too - although the year of Rabbit started on a good foot - the later part of the year - we are missing some elements - therefore I will be carry water with me at all times - and also have water around the house and store always.  But I am not going to overdo it - or I might just drown myself.   I am also getting myself a Heaven Luck Activator to help me succeed in my undertaking this year.