April 10

Therapeutic Shopping

My girlfriend who is highly stressed because of work loves shopping online and since she loves music so much , she loves shopping at  guitar center jacksonville fl  .  Not only does she gets all her midi keyboard and accessories there , she also take note as to what to get for everyone during Easter, Christmases and birthdays on this site.   She said she can never go wrong with musical instruments as everyone in her family loves music.  She said it is therapeutic to shop online and I told her to do whatever makes her feel good.

March 25

Music For Relaxing


This year didn’t start off right for me and while I’m upset with some things that really could have been avoid , I have been looking at getting some  chesbro music  for relaxing my mind and soul and to calm myself down.  Did you know that music not only can help with better Feng Shui , it helps with clearing one’s mind and one is able to achieve a better sense of their surroundings and focus on what they need to do.  So if you are feeling annoyed , disturbed or basically not calm, trying listening to some music , it most definitely will help.

December 9

Making Merry


Christmas is just round the corner and everyone is planning for Christmas parties and year end party and we are no different as well.  And I’ve always like the idea of livening the house because it’s always good Feng shui for the home and the people living at our house.  So party it is for us at home to make merry and make everyone happy but a  numark kmx02  is a must according to the entertainment director of the party.   And as long as it is not too expensive, we can buy one for long term investment.

November 15

Are You Bad Luck?


I hear people complain all the time that they are where they are because they are facing “BAD LUCK” .  Is there really such thing that one is having bad luck ?  for a period of time or a long period of their life.  Does bad luck follow you like some people claims?   A long time girlfriend of mine always joke that if she didn’t have bad luck, she didn’t have any luck at all.

The only reason why she keeps saying this is because bad things happens to her and her life all the time.  Her car breaks down , her son wants to commit suicide, she gets into a fight with her hubby and then her ex.  After her car is fix, she gets into an accident with the deer on the road.  Yes, it’s a never ending story for her , or should I say, it definitely seems to any one who knows her that she is having some kind of bad luck or a dark cloud surrounding her constantly.

But wait a minute , lets dig deeper and look deeper into my friend’s life and her surroundings as well as her circumstances.   How does one have so much bad luck you ask ?  And yes a deeper look into her life , you will find that although an extremely good person , my old friend makes some of the worst choices in her life and not willing to make any changes and thus continues to lament about it when bad things happen.  For example,  her car , she used to buy old cars, thus is always having car trouble.  When she finally did get a new car, she was driving it so fast even knowing that the area she lives in, is a deer hazard area.  So who can she blames if the deer comes running into her car all the time?


My girlfriend is so comfortable with the life she lives in and is not willing to make changes in her way of driving or the way she handles different aspect of her life, that she blames it on bad luck for anything that goes wrong in her life.  She doesn’t need to carry a cloud of bad luck with her all the time, all she needs to do is to stop doing what she is doing constantly and make changes and take action/s and take charge of her life and situation.  One needs to remove the fear , make some wise decision to make these changes and snap out of this “loser” mentality.   Nothing is impossible, unless, you don’t want to change, unless you don’t want to make things better.

When I see young people coming in to hand in their resumes because the court makes this young offender do it as part of their rehabilitation, do they really want to work?  They say that the reason that they got into trouble is because they didn’t have a job?  Or they have bad luck and gets fired after a few days of work , was it really bad luck?  or the attitude of these young people?  Anyone who’ve made mistakes in life, can make changes in their life if they want too, they don’t need to continue being losers or had bad luck following them.  The ability to step out of their comfort zone and face their fears about getting rejected by people or looked down upon by people , this is the first steps into making the improvement that is so much needed in their currently daunting life.

When one reads about Rag to Riches stories or even ex – con turn into millionaire, what does this tell you?  people are in charge of their own destiny.  When I cannot lose my weight for many years, it isn’t bad luck, it is my lack of ambition.  A lot of people blame their past, their life , bad luck and any possible thing they can come up with to not do what they have potential to do.  So if you are one of those with “BAD LUCK ”  all the time, you can make the bad luck go away on your own.   Get committed to the plan to simply want this change in your life, will yourself to do what you think  is causing your bad luck.
What defines your current situation that you are in , is what you are doing to yourself and your life.  Feng shui is not magic, it is the art of putting sensible thinking with the flow of good vibes and good energy into one’s life to make changes in your life.  If you are currently experiencing bad luck, will making changes make it worst?  after all you are already having bad luck, how much worst can it get ?  so don’t make excuses, make changes.
October 1

Negative News And People

Negative people or negative thoughts  or those who are constantly negative, you should stay far away from them.  Why?  Because they carry around them bad qi and bad luck is contagious , so I heard.  So if you meet someone like that , make sure you have very little contact with them.

September 19

Music For Business Front


Many years ago, when the spouse first started the business, we had speakers put outside the store , so that we can attract the customers to come into the store and of course for Feng Shui reasons as well.  We also had a flag flying around, so that there is movement outside our store.  If we had more money at that time, we would had gotten those  Musicians Friend PA Speaker systems  for that reason alone.  But since last year, the town has music playing on the Main Street to liven up downtown.  While some shop owners don’t like it, I thought it was a fabulous idea because I didn’t have to put a speaker outside our store now.

August 1

Decorating Your Home The Feng Shui Way

 Friends asked me all the time about how one can decorate their home/houses the feng shui way to enhance their life.  But how do I even begin to tell them about my way of decorating to make the chi flow better at my home?  Do one start with good furniture ?  or is the color important ?  so many questions but so little time to go through each and everyone of their question.  So I normally, tell them that a good  home decor center  where one can get everything under one roof is a good help when one is trying to decorate or re-decorate to enhance one’s way of living.


Does it matter what kind of furniture , does it have to be all wood or all rattan ?  Actually, decorating one’s home is to one’s preference, whatever makes you the owner and the people living inside the house happy is good by me but of course, some reservations on color and design needs to be considered carefully.  As for bedding, I think anything that is not too dark would also help to brighten up one’s home thus making everyone happier.

 What about the exterior ?  outdoor furniture ? does it matter ?  I get asked this often enough.  As far as Feng Shui is concern, not too much clutter and some bright and soothing color as well as good coordination would be good for the feng shui of one’s home/house.  One has to be in a good furniture shop, where you can get everything under one roof , with no stress and then you can easily co-ordinate all your furniture buying as well as plenty to choose from, to make your home a good feng shui home.

July 25

Can One Change A Cheating Husband With Feng Shui?


 A girlfriend of mine who just got back with her cheating husband after being separated for 3.5 yrs , asked me if there is anything in Feng Shui to help.  We all know that it’s hard to get back with a cheating spouse, of course, forgiveness is important and all but it’s going to be an uphill task and more than a usual relationship. Anyhow, you asked and I’m here to answer you folks out there who is going thru’ the same issues as my girlfriend.

Firstly, if you have any water features in the house especially in the front of the house like a door, you should remove it immediately.   While it is commonly known that placing a water fountain in the house is a way of feng shui to bring in money to your home/house, you have to be careful.  If the water is flowing away from your home/house, it may encourage you or your spouse to look for love elsewhere and not home.

Some people say that if the fountain is placed on the outside facing the door, it is the woman who will stray and if the fountain is placed on the left side of the door, then it is the man who might stray.  But whichever or whatever position, I say it is no way good to have it , so why tempt fate right?  Just do away with it completely as far as I can advice.

You know when you were younger, old folks used to tell us that we should take photos in 3s ?  yes, there must be a really good reason for it but some people don’t think that it is true  but do believe it because when you keep having things in 3 s , it will mean that someone will come in between both of you.  What you place in your home, is actually a reflection of what may happen or a yearning?   I don’t really know how to explain it, but just make sure that your home does not have decorative that comes in 3.  Avoid taking pictures in 3 too if possible , well , unless it is with your spouse and your child/children.

 Place things in pairs like 2 pillows , 2 candles and anything in pair and try not to mismatch instead make things blend into everything else at home.  Balance is the key word here.