July 25

Can One Change A Cheating Husband With Feng Shui?


 A girlfriend of mine who just got back with her cheating husband after being separated for 3.5 yrs , asked me if there is anything in Feng Shui to help.  We all know that it’s hard to get back with a cheating spouse, of course, forgiveness is important and all but it’s going to be an uphill task and more than a usual relationship. Anyhow, you asked and I’m here to answer you folks out there who is going thru’ the same issues as my girlfriend.

Firstly, if you have any water features in the house especially in the front of the house like a door, you should remove it immediately.   While it is commonly known that placing a water fountain in the house is a way of feng shui to bring in money to your home/house, you have to be careful.  If the water is flowing away from your home/house, it may encourage you or your spouse to look for love elsewhere and not home.

Some people say that if the fountain is placed on the outside facing the door, it is the woman who will stray and if the fountain is placed on the left side of the door, then it is the man who might stray.  But whichever or whatever position, I say it is no way good to have it , so why tempt fate right?  Just do away with it completely as far as I can advice.

You know when you were younger, old folks used to tell us that we should take photos in 3s ?  yes, there must be a really good reason for it but some people don’t think that it is true  but do believe it because when you keep having things in 3 s , it will mean that someone will come in between both of you.  What you place in your home, is actually a reflection of what may happen or a yearning?   I don’t really know how to explain it, but just make sure that your home does not have decorative that comes in 3.  Avoid taking pictures in 3 too if possible , well , unless it is with your spouse and your child/children.

 Place things in pairs like 2 pillows , 2 candles and anything in pair and try not to mismatch instead make things blend into everything else at home.  Balance is the key word here.



July 12

Using Feng Shui To Light Up Your Life


A wise man said :  and I quote,

“You can curse the darkness. Of you can light a candle.

Your destiny chart doesn’t label any particular period as a bad “break” or “unlucky days.” The chart also does not say you need to move with the tides and conform to circumstances dictated by somebody else.

The reason you read your BaZi chart is to find solutions and possibilities. With the right information, we are then free to become the creators of our experience.”

July 8

Easy Living


Visiting my girlfriend’s apartment and seeing how she maximized her small space makes me so proud of her.  Even her kitchen has a hanging door gear  for her sliding glass door to prevent the smoke from coming into the living room while she is cooking.  I loved the idea totally but I would have used thicker glass door if I were her, that way, the kitchen can be noisy and it won’t affect those already in the dining room as well as the tv room.   But overall, her apartment is not only well decorated but also well used of space.