So I’ve been going thru’ a lot of chaos and a lot of unwanted stress at the home front for myself. I think it’s because I don’t have a good sense of time management and try to please everyone but end up not feeling too good about myself. If one cannot feel good about themselves how can one make others or your home feel good right? I thought that since I had been practicing the teaching of Feng Shui every now and then, shouldn’t I have more peace in my life and my surroundings? But nope, if you are stressed up , how can you have a joyful or harmonious lifestyle.
Trying to please people around me seems not to work for me if I cannot clean my surroundings and don’t even have time to shower everyday. So my time management ain’t good, and that has to change first. So instead of allowing my kid to have play dates every other day, she can only do so when I’ve done all my chores and she has done all her homework and piano practices. It may sound harsh but we all have to learn that there is only so much time in a day for us to work, clean and rest.
The condition of your surroundings and your inner self is so important for feng shui and the good energy to come by. A few days ago, when my house smelled like rotten eggs, that stressed me up a whole lot as well and that means that I need to get that clear up and find the source of the rotten eggs, because how can one not be stressed up with a rotten egg smell in the house right? so yes, feng shui also means one has to be logical. And logical means, we have to find time to clean our surroundings and clear our surroundings.
So yes, finding inner peace in feng shui means, I have to say no to my kid from time to time and not think that I am doing her a disfavor and also not worry too much about the spouse and about what he wants to do. If he needs time to do his stuff or play his games, he just have to prioritize.