Feng Shui CrazyMaking My World A Better One

A girl i know from work – even after using the best eye cream for wrinkles because she has lots of wrinkles around her eyes – she said she  never have any luck with her love life, in fact each relationship seems to end up with a disaster.  So she asked me one day – how does one glow with love – like another friend she knows who practices feng shui.  I think what she did was a positive way to help herself – because if you didn’t look good – how are you going to have confidence in yourself – so yes! she took the first step – by helping herself and getting the best wrinkles cream – now a little bit of feng shui on its way.

Once again, I tell everyone that Feng Shui is no magic or does it have any magical potion. but feng shui can be used in love and relationships.  Here are a few tips – I found on a feng shui magazine and practices it myself.

1. If you are married or in a relationship, hang pictures of you together with your mate.

2. For married couples, place a pair of objects in the far right corner of the bedroom otherwise known as the southwest corner. A few good examples are a pair of Mandarin ducks or cranes as these are symbols of marital bliss. Another is a heart shaped figurine made from pink quartz crystal.

3. You surely have mirrors in the bedroom. If they are facing the bed, relocate them because it reflects the couple on the bed. Some believe that this will cause a failure in the relationship because of the entry of a third party. Believe it or not, televisions are just as negative as mirrors do get rid of it.

4. As for the bed, make sure that this is not in direct line to the door. This is because the dead take your with your feet first. It should also be accessible from three sides as this will allow you to keep your partner.

5. You should always treat yourselves to fresh flowers and once they wilt, replace it. Never put these in the southwest corner of the room as this will clash with the element of romance, namely earth.

6. If there are any abstract, dark or sad artworks in the bedroom, take it out. These things encourage negativity when this room should be peaceful and safe for those who sleep there. You can replace it with a painting of Peonies, love birds or silk flowers as these represents love.

7. You must never work out in the bedroom because this represents hard work that is often a hindrance of romantic space.

8. Should the bedroom doors squeak, fix it because it blocks romantic energy from entering the bedroom.

9. For those who have toilets and unfortunately this is located on the south west corner of the room, don’t worry because you can fix it by hanging a five rod wind chime.

10. The bedroom should be well ventilated so old energy moves out of the room.

11. It will also be a good idea to buy yourselves a gift as this symbolizes your relationship. Put this in a prominent place in the room or the home so you are able to remember your partner.

12. But what if you are still single? Well Feng Shui may also work for you. You do this by making a wish list of what qualities you want in an ideal partner and also the ideal relationship. These are two different things and when you write it, be specific. It may not happen today or tomorrow but one day, your ideal partner will show up and you can have your dream come true.

Feng Shui can help you keep the love alive in your relationship by blocking out negative things and then embracing those that are positive. This may mean relying more of Yin which symbolizes femininity more than Yang which is masculinity but it is all good as this causes a healthy balance with the opposite sex.

I was at my optometrist place the other day – their new office – and it had been like a year since I had been in there.  The new office was very nice and all – the colors were perfect and so where the furniture placing. – they even have  humidifier filters in place.  But i turned and looked at the window and realized that there were oncoming traffic directly towards the store and i know that cannot mean good.

But like anyone who practices Feng Shui and believes in it – i wanted to tell her – but the right courtesy is not to say anything – unless you are being asked.  So i kept quiet and a check on the background of the building – nothing or no one had been in this building for more than a few years.  So lets hope she does ok eh.   But i’m not gonna say anything – that’s for sure.